Es ist mit der Liebe auch wie mit anderen Pflanzen:
Wer Liebe ernten will, muss Liebe pflanzen.
It is with love as with other plants:
Who wants to harvest Love, must plant Love.
Today I would like to write about romance, what it means and how it brings joy to our life, to our relationship for my point of view.
Maybe at first, we need to answer the following question:
What is romance?
The answer could be:
♥ To get up with a sweet kiss and hear his/her soft voice on our ear.
♥ To wake up in the morning together and seeing that our beloved one is still next to us and there for us.
♥ To prepare the breakfast together and sometimes for each other on Sunday mornings, making the pancakes he/she loved in the morning.
♥ To hear how beautiful and sexy we are from his/her lips after shower although we have nothing then a towel on us.
♥ To kiss each other passionately at the door and say goodbye, knowing that we already start to miss him/her.
♥ To have the feeling that urge us to look at our watch every 5 minutes to check when we can leave the office and go home to our beloved one.
♥ To be welcomed with a long kiss and a warm hug when the door is opened at home.
♥ To feel his/her scent on our face while hugging.
♥ To see the spark in his/her eyes and have the excitement as if we didn’t see each other for a long time.
♥ To prepare the dinner table and cook together.
♥ Unable to stop checking our phone if there is a message from him/her whole day.
♥ To make plans for the evening how we can surprise our loved one and get a big smile on his/her face today.
♥ To feel butterflies on our chest and stomach, feeling a bit dizzy time to time.
♥ To play our music, dimming the lights a bit and enjoying a pleasant evening together.
♥ At least once a month to go out and enjoy a whole day together, tickets to a movie or a walk in the park despite the heavy rain outside.
♥ To listen to each other with undivided attention to show our beloved one how much she/he is meant to us.
♥ To be able to see our beloved one by heart, hear by soul, and talk with eyes.
♥ Sometimes as little as to touch on the lips and give a short look in the eyes to show him/her how much we love.
♥ To be grateful to have each other every day and appreciating what we did together.
♥ To go to bed together as if we have an appointment with our secret lover.
♥ To fall asleep hands in hands, feeling safe and relaxed in each other’s arm.
♥ To have sensational communication where all our senses fulfilled by each other.
♥ To show our love by saying love words and sometimes just with small gestures
♥ Unable to stop ourselves touching each other whole day and show tenderness.
♥ To kiss a hundred times again and again and still feel it is not enough.
♥ To set our priorities and not letting romance dies or love ends: Relationship comes first.
♥ To stimulated each other to be creative again and again every day and not letting the routine comes in our relationship
♥ Not to let romance fade away over time but instead, deliver the unexpected, create the surprise, adventure all the time, not knowing what to expect, a continuous game and play each day.
♥ and to do something 1+ more every day on the top of what we have done yesterday.
Do these things sound impossible to you?
Little things create big impacts.
It is not doing a big thing once a year that matters but little acts we do every day.
What are the little things that can bring romance to your life, to your relationship?
Romance is to feel love, compassion, and passion for each other every single day.
“I want to see you. Know your voice. Recognize you when you first come ’round the corner. Sense your scent when I come into a room you’ve just left. Know the lift of your heel, the glide of your foot. Become familiar with the way you purse your lips then let them part, just the slightest bit, when I lean in to your space and kiss you. I want to know the joy of how you whisper ‘more.’”
In your light I learn how to love. In your beauty, how to make poems. You dance inside my chest where no-one sees you, but sometimes I do, and that sight becomes this art.”
“When I am with you, we stay up all night. When you’re not here, I can’t go to sleep.